
Spousal Support and Alimony Lawyer in Lancaster, PA
When a marriage ends, financial uncertainty often follows. Whether you are seeking spousal support or facing a significant alimony obligation, the decisions made during this process will shape your financial future for years to come. A spousal support lawyer at May Herr & Grosh LLP can help you understand your rights, present your circumstances accurately, and work toward an outcome that reflects what is fair.
We serve individuals and families throughout Lancaster County, PA, from initial filings through post-divorce modifications, and some aspects of family law.

Protecting Your Financial Future During and After Divorce
Pennsylvania law recognizes that divorce can create serious financial imbalances, particularly when one spouse earned significantly more than the other or when one spouse stepped away from a career to support the household. Spousal support and alimony laws exist to address those imbalances.
But “fair” is rarely straightforward. What one party considers reasonable, another may see as excessive. The outcome depends on how your circumstances are presented, how the law applies to your specific situation, and how effectively your attorney advocates for your position.
At May Herr & Grosh LLP, we take both sides of this equation seriously. Our goal is not simply to push paperwork through the court. Our goal is to make sure the result actually reflects your life, your needs, and your financial reality.

What Types of Spousal Support and Alimony Does May Herr & Grosh LLP Handle?
Pennsylvania recognizes three distinct forms of financial support between spouses. Understanding the differences matters because each type applies at a different stage of the process and is governed by different rules.
Spousal Support
This applies during separation, before a divorce is finalized. If you and your spouse are living apart and divorce proceedings have not yet concluded, one spouse may seek spousal support from the other. Pennsylvania calculates this using an income-based formula under the statewide support guidelines.
Alimony Pendente Lite (APL)
APL is a form of support paid while divorce litigation is actively pending. It is intended to help the lower-earning spouse maintain financial stability during what can be a lengthy legal process. Like spousal support, APL is typically calculated using the Pennsylvania support guidelines.
Post-Divorce Alimony
This is the form of alimony most people picture when they hear the term. It is ordered after a divorce is finalized and is intended to give the receiving spouse time and resources to become self-supporting, or to recognize a long-term financial disparity when independence is not a realistic expectation. Post-divorce alimony involves a broader, more individualized analysis than the formula-based calculations used for spousal support and APL.
May Herr & Grosh LLP handles matters involving all three types, as well as petitions to modify or terminate existing support orders.
How Is Spousal Support Calculated in Pennsylvania?

For spousal support and APL, Pennsylvania uses an income-based formula outlined in the statewide support guidelines under 231 Pa. Code Rule 1910.16-2. The calculation considers the net incomes of both parties, and in many cases, produces a monthly support figure that serves as a starting point for negotiations or court proceedings.
Post-divorce alimony is a different matter. Rather than applying a formula, Pennsylvania courts weigh 17 factors under 23 Pa.C.S. Section 3701 when determining whether alimony is appropriate, how much should be paid, and for how long. Those factors include:
- The length of the marriage
- Each spouse’s earning capacity and employability
- The standard of living established during the marriage
- Each spouse’s age and physical and mental condition
- Contributions made as a homemaker or caregiver
- Whether either spouse contributed to the other’s education or earning potential
- The relative financial needs and resources of each party
No two cases produce the same outcome. The numbers matter, but so does the story behind them. An alimony lawyer can evaluate your specific circumstances and help you present a complete picture to the court.
Are You Seeking Support or Protecting Your Assets?
The right approach depends entirely on which side of the equation you are on. May Herr & Grosh LLP works with clients in both positions.
If You Are Seeking Spousal Support or Alimony
Your priority is financial stability. Whether you were the primary caregiver, left the workforce to support your household, or earned significantly less than your spouse, you may have a legitimate need for financial support during and after divorce. An attorney can evaluate what you may be entitled to under Pennsylvania law, help you document your needs and contributions, and advocate for an amount and duration that reflects your actual situation.
If You Are Being Asked to Pay Spousal Support or Alimony
Your priority is fairness. Alimony obligations that are poorly defined, excessive, or based on inaccurate income assumptions can create a long-term financial burden that follows you well beyond the divorce. An attorney can review the basis for any support claim, challenge figures that do not accurately reflect your income or the other party’s earning capacity, and work to ensure that any obligation imposed is proportionate and appropriately structured.
Can an Existing Alimony Order Be Changed?
Yes, in many cases it can. Pennsylvania law permits the modification or termination of alimony when there has been a material and substantial change in circumstances. Common situations that may justify a modification include:
- A significant change in either party’s income, including job loss or a major increase in earnings
- Retirement
- A serious or long-term health condition affecting the ability to pay or the need for support
- Remarriage of the receiving spouse, which terminates alimony under 23 Pa.C.S. Section 3706
- The death of either party, which also terminates the obligation under 23 Pa.C.S. Section 3707
If your circumstances have changed since your original order was entered, or if you believe the other party’s circumstances have changed, a spousal support attorney can evaluate whether a modification petition is appropriate.
Why Work With May Herr & Grosh LLP for Your Alimony Case?
Lancaster County has its own legal culture. Local court familiarity matters, and so does having attorneys who understand the nuances of how support cases are handled in this jurisdiction.
May Herr & Grosh LLP has served individuals and families throughout Lancaster County and the surrounding region since 1929. We bring that depth of experience to every matter we handle, including the financial disputes that often define how life looks on the other side of a divorce.
What you can expect when you work with us:
- Direct attention to your specific circumstances, not a one-size-fits-all approach
- Clear communication about where you stand, what your options are, and what to expect
- Advocacy that takes both the financial and personal dimensions of your situation seriously
- Familiarity with Lancaster County courts and local practice standards
We work with clients seeking support and those managing support obligations. Wherever you stand, our goal is to help you move forward with clarity and financial stability.
Frequently Asked Questions About Spousal Support and Alimony in Pennsylvania
Spousal support and alimony questions come up at every stage of the process, from the earliest days of separation through post-divorce modifications. Below are answers to some of the questions we hear most often. If your situation is not covered here, or if you want to understand how Pennsylvania law applies to your specific circumstances, contact May Herr & Grosh LLP directly.
What is the difference between alimony and spousal support?
In Pennsylvania, these terms refer to different things. Spousal support is paid during separation, before a divorce is finalized. Alimony Pendente Lite (APL) is paid while divorce proceedings are actively pending. Post-divorce alimony is ordered after the divorce is finalized. Each type is governed by different rules and serves a different purpose. A spousal support attorney can explain how each may apply to your situation.
How long does spousal support last in Pennsylvania?
There is no universal answer. The duration depends on the type of support involved and the circumstances of the case. Spousal support and APL generally last until the divorce is finalized. Post-divorce alimony may be rehabilitative (for a defined period to allow the recipient to become self-supporting) or, in limited cases, longer-term. The 17 factors considered under Pennsylvania law include the length of the marriage and the recipient’s earning capacity, both of which directly affect duration.
Can alimony be modified if I lose my job or retire?
Possibly. Pennsylvania courts may modify an existing alimony order when there has been a material and substantial change in circumstances. Job loss and retirement are both potential grounds for modification, though the outcome depends on the specific facts. An attorney can evaluate whether your situation meets the legal standard for a modification petition.
Does fault, such as adultery, affect alimony in Pennsylvania?
Under Pennsylvania law, fault can be a factor in post-divorce alimony determinations. Specifically, marital misconduct is one of the 17 factors courts may consider under 23 Pa.C.S. Section 3701. However, its weight relative to the other factors varies. Fault is generally not a factor in spousal support calculations, though there are exceptions when the spouse seeking support is at fault for the separation. An attorney can explain how fault may or may not apply in your specific circumstances.
How much does a spousal support lawyer cost?
Attorney fees vary based on the complexity of the matter, the length of proceedings, and whether the case is resolved through negotiation or contested litigation. May Herr & Grosh LLP can discuss the fee structure and what to expect during your initial assessment. The best way to understand the cost of representation is to schedule a conversation with our team.


Ready to protect your financial future? May Herr & Grosh LLP represents clients on both sides of spousal support and alimony matters throughout Lancaster County, PA. Schedule an assessment today to discuss your circumstances with an experienced alimony attorney.